Chapter 4 – Six Elements of Magnetic Profile

Chapter 4 – Six Elements of Magnetic Profile
When creating your online dating profile, you need to make sure it is interesting enough to keep women intrigued and interested to know more about you.

In order to help you do that, we pulled out 6 key components of every man’s magnetic profile.

1. Confidence

Women like confident men. That’s a fact, and that’s why confidence is the first element you need to include in your profile in order to make it magnetic.

An Example:

‘Hi, I’m George. I’m 45 years-old from New York. I work as a bar owner, and I have two children, two grown-up sons.

My wife, who was 35 at the time, died from cancer. Now, after almost ten years, my boys are all grown up, and they keep telling me that I am young and that I need to find someone to be happy with, that it’s what their mom would want. And they might be right, who knows.

Anyway, that is why I decided to register here and try to find that special person who would like to spend nice moments with me, talking about all kinds of stuff.

Someone who would simply want to enjoy with me.

As for myself, due to my line of work, being my own boss basically, I am a very busy person, with a lot of things to think about when it comes to my job.

Apart from that, I like to spend my free time reading and listening to music, which calms me and helps me relax.

Also, I enjoy trying out new types of food whenever a new restaurant is open. So, you won’t have to worry about me taking you to a bad place on our first date because I know almost every restaurant in New York.

If you are, food adventurer like me or you simply want to discuss your favorite novel with me, feel free to send me a message.’

In this example, you can see how George is a confident man when he talks about his knowledge of all restaurants in New York.

That’s what women love, the man who is ready to take the initiative and rock their world by being capable of making his own decisions.

2. Personality

The next very important element to take into account when making an online dating profile is describing your personality.

This is crucial because by sharing as much as possible about yourself, you would allow people to see who you really are, which would help them decide easier if you are their perfect match or not.

A good way of doing that is describing certain qualities you have, like humor, intelligence or even some weirdness.

‘…I have a pet spider, whose name is Mike…’

This is definitely weirdness, but some girls might like it, and it could help you stand out of the crowd of a large number of almost the same profiles.

An Example:

‘Hello, my name is John. I am 24 years old, coming from Seattle. I was curious about whether this type of dating even works, so I decided to try it out.

Here are a few details about myself. While I was in college, I trained swimming to stay in good shape and health.

In general, I am a sportsperson. You could say that I like almost every type of sport.

In my free time, I usually do some sport, either basketball with friends, or just go to a gun range and do some shooting, which always calms me and lets me think about everything in piece.

Also, I really like to read novels, especially historical novels, or novels set in a certain part of the historical setting. My favorite writer is Ken Follet.

 I really enjoyed his “Pillars of the Earth” novel, but my favorite is the “Clash of Titans”, which is a series of three novels, each set in a different time period, following several people and their families over the course of all those years.

If you are a bit intrigued by what I had said, let me know what your favorite book is. Ciao!’

Do you see how this profile is descriptive?

It tells us a lot about John, what he likes, what he doesn’t like, how old he is, what are his hobbies, and why he is trying to meet someone online. In short, we can see his personality here.

That could help us start a conversation with him if needed, and that is why you should try to be as descriptive as possible about your personality.

3. Mystery/Intrigue

Everyone loves a good story. You can use that to boost the interest in your profile, by, for instance, telling a story without an ending, which would make them want to hear more and contact you.

Or simply tell an interesting story that would reflect your personality and allow them to get to know you better, like in the next example.

An Example:

‘Hi, I’m George. I’m 45 years-old from New York. I work as a bar owner, and I have two children, two grown-up sons.

My wife, who was 35 at the time, died from cancer.

Now, after almost ten years, my boys are all grown up, and they keep telling me that I am young and that I need to find someone to be happy with, that it’s what their mom would want.

And they might be right, who knows.

Anyway, that is why I decided to register here and try to find that special person who would like to spend nice moments with me, talking about all kinds of stuff.

Someone who would simply want to enjoy with me.

As for myself, due to my line of work, being my own boss basically, I am a very busy person, with a lot of things to think about when it comes to my job.

Apart from that, I like to spend my free time reading and listening to music, which calms me and helps me relax.

Also, I enjoy trying out new types of food whenever a new restaurant is open.

So, you won’t have to worry about me taking you to a bad place on our first date because I know almost every restaurant in New York.

If you are, food adventurer like me or you simply want to discuss your favorite novel with me, feel free to send me a message.’

In the example of George, he talks about his wife, who died of cancer almost 10 years ago.

That is both heartbreaking and interesting story because it tells you how he felt and what he had to do to protect his children and lead them through life until they grew up.

4. Security

Most women look for security in their male partners. By security, I don’t just mean financial security, but also other types of security that might sound important.

Because of that, you need to show that you are a strong and independent person, capable of taking care of his family.

The way to do that is by saying how much you love your job or knowing what you really want in life and similar. Here is an example.

An Example:

‘Hi, my name is Tim, and I am 37 years old. I work as a math teacher, and I have always been intrigued by whether this type of dating even works, so I decided to try it out.

My hobbies are table tennis, swimming, hiking, and bicycle riding.

Apart from that, I really enjoy walking and running, but I do that less frequently than previous activities.

I’m well-organized, meticulous and funny. I was married 2 years ago, so you could say that I know how to make a woman smile and be happy.

I am looking for a nice woman who would like to enjoy these moments of fun and happiness with me.

If you are that kind of person, feel free to contact me.’

5. Qualifier/Who is Your Ideal Match

Another very important element to consider is to include what you expect to find out in your ideal match.

Make sure to write what type of person you want to meet and what are your expectations about it. Here are a few examples.

Examples:

‘I would like to find a person who would like to spend that time with me.

I really enjoy the sunset to midnight walks, when you can go under the moon on a blanket and a bottle of wine.’

‘…I didn’t come here to advertise my business but to try to find some nice girl, who would like to have some casual fun, without any obligations whatsoever.’

6. Call to Action

In the end, you should try to put a call to action, so they know you are open to talks. Here are a few examples.

Examples:

‘If you think you could be that person, give me a call!’

So, if you are feeling a bit intrigued and want to know more about me, perhaps even give me some cooking tips, feel free to send me a message.’

‘If you are a bit intrigued by what I had said, let me know what your favorite book is. Ciao!’

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